Our DSD is having a baby in Dec....due date is Dec 24. She had an ultrasound done yesterday and got to hear the the heart beat 166. We are HOPING for a girl since we already have 2 DSGS 10 & 7. I am so excited...I want a little DSGD so bad I love the boys but they run and hide when I try to put a pink dress on them! Just kidding!!!

It was NOT a planned baby shes only 20 and not really sure that she wants to have it. We have told her we will help her all we can. She is leaning tour keeping it now...but the hormones are swinging.
The guy doesnt want her to have it....But thats another story...Dont want to go into that here.
Im happy that it MIGHT be a DSGD but if its a DSGS that OK too as long as both are HEALTHLY thats what counts!!!

By Rayelle on Tuesday, May 20, 2008 - 01:42 pm:

Congratulations!

By Dawnk777 on Tuesday, May 20, 2008 - 02:22 pm:

Congratulations! Thinking pink!

(wouldn't let me do pink!)

By Crystal915 on Tuesday, May 20, 2008 - 04:31 pm:

CONGRATS!!!!

By Dramamamma on Tuesday, May 20, 2008 - 04:50 pm:

I can totally relate to hormones. :-) I'll be thinking PINK for you all. I hope she has an uneventful pregnancy.

Congratulations!

By Wahoo on Tuesday, May 20, 2008 - 07:57 pm:

Congratulations!!

By Bobbie~moderatr on Wednesday, May 21, 2008 - 10:11 am:

Congratulations!! Healthy baby, healthy mom...

By Rayanne on Wednesday, May 21, 2008 - 12:22 pm:

Congratulations!!!!!!

By Pandamamaoo4 on Tuesday, May 27, 2008 - 02:12 pm:

Thanks everyone. We too are hoping for a HEALTHY MOM & HEALTHY DSGD.
She is still on the fence BUT Im thinking she has maded up her mind...She hasnt said anything yet but Im thinking she'll be keeping it. THANK GOD!! We raised her RIGHT!!! Thats just how her DSD & I feel!!

By Dramamamma on Tuesday, May 27, 2008 - 04:45 pm:

If she gets on the computer some, I'm part of a very supportive yahoo group for moms due in December if she'd like information have her send me an email.

kikilee 02 at sbcglobal dot net

By Pandamamaoo4 on Wednesday, June 18, 2008 - 02:10 pm:

Well we aren't going to be DSGP any time soon...Im so heart broken about it She/HE decided that she didn't want it..Long story there.. WONT go into that...Bottom line HE DIDN'T WANT IT...WHAT A BUTTHEAD!!!!

I'M SO HEART BROKEN.I was soooo looking forward to it..It will be a hard Xmas....but I will survive.

By Dramamamma on Wednesday, June 18, 2008 - 03:04 pm:

I am very sorry to hear this, my thoughts will be with you and with her I'm sure she'll need them as well.

By Dawnk777 on Wednesday, June 18, 2008 - 03:04 pm:

I'm so sorry. to him.

By Brandy on Wednesday, June 18, 2008 - 03:49 pm:

= (

By Colette on Wednesday, June 18, 2008 - 04:08 pm:

I am sorry. If nothing else, maybe this will be what opens her eyes and she moves on from this boyfriend.

By Bobbie~moderatr on Wednesday, June 18, 2008 - 04:09 pm:

This is extremely heart breaking.. I am generally pro life, adoption etc... But I am supportive of anyone that puts themselves through this situation (for lack of a better word). I am truly sorry this is the choice she made and I pray she doesn't live to regret it the rest of her life... Give her a big hug from me... I know several women that have made this choice for various reasons, I know of at least one that often wonders what it would have been like, longs for that child to this day and her termination occurred nearly 15 years ago.. The pain in her heart surpasses any judgment she has endured when she speaks to people about the choice she made.

I am excited about being a grandma.. Honestly I have wanted to be a grandma since I was a kid myself. Just the idea of that relationship/bond you can carry with the next generation of you.. I can feel the "loss" you must feel. You and DSD will be in my thoughts.. (((((HUGS)))) I agree he needs slapped in the head, Dawn...

By Pandamamaoo4 on Friday, June 20, 2008 - 08:37 am:

Thanks guys...One day it will hit her and WE NOT the BOZO will be there to comfort her...It does not seem to faze him. He better stay FAR away from me...Hes NOT on the top of my list....I have soooo much HATE for him.its NOT funny...He could drop dead today & I'd be dancing at his grave....No JOKE!!!

By Colette on Friday, June 20, 2008 - 09:53 am:

((Cathy))

By Bobbie~moderatr on Friday, June 20, 2008 - 10:35 am:

Oh (((Cathy))) Are they still together??