I am a regional operations manager for a mortgage company and I have been having to travel to one of our offices quite frequently lately. (I hate missing out on what's going on with the board when I am away )

Anyway, the reason I have had to go to this particular office is because the loan processor there is a single mom of three. She just had a baby in June. She had her first two from her first marriage, and the third (all girls) was an oopsie with her boyfriend. He dumped her when he found out she was pregnant. She went through the whole pregnancy alone (no relationship with her parents either). While she was on maternity leave, she was staying with her sister and her husband. They also watched her older girls (ages 10 and 5.

Right when she was ready to return from work from maternity leave, her oldest daughter came back from going with the bil to drop his son off. She started crying hysterically. The guy raped this poor little 10 year old girl. Her mom took her to the hospital and she had injuries from this freak. She has clammed up and won't talk to any of the therapists, etc. She has also contracted a vd. The guy ran and his wife(her sister) went with him. They did catch him and he is in jail, but that does not take back what he did to this precious little girl.

Every hair on my body stands up when I think of it!!

I was there yesterday and she gave me an update and said that her 5y/o had asked her daddy not to tickle her because the uncle always did that, and also she wants him to sleep fully clothed when she is with him.

Her exam showed no signs of her being violated, but it sounds like she either saw it, or they missed something.

I feel so bad for this family! I don't understand how anyone could do this to a child, or to anyone for that matter.

Can you believe that? Makes me sick!

By Marg on Wednesday, September 15, 2004 - 01:04 pm:

By Trisa on Wednesday, September 15, 2004 - 01:57 pm:

that makes me sick too!
Poor thing I will keep her in my prayers.

By Mommyathome on Wednesday, September 15, 2004 - 02:04 pm:

So sad

By Christylee on Wednesday, September 15, 2004 - 03:14 pm:

OMGoodness, I am so thankful that he is in jail. What kind of sister allows her husband to do that to her own sister's children? I am just so sad for these poor little girls and thier family. How tragic.

I hope he rots in prison AND the sister lost her sister over this, there'd be NO FORGIVING from me.

By Insaneusmcwife on Wednesday, September 15, 2004 - 04:09 pm:

OMG

By Kernkate on Wednesday, September 15, 2004 - 04:11 pm:

OMG that is so sad

By Cat on Wednesday, September 15, 2004 - 05:22 pm:

That is so incredibly sad.

By Jelygu on Wednesday, September 15, 2004 - 06:56 pm:

That is horrible

By Bea on Wednesday, September 15, 2004 - 07:47 pm:

I'm not allowed to type the words that are forming in my head on reading this. I only hope some other inmates find out why he's in jail. I've heard they make child molesters suffer.

By Dana on Thursday, September 16, 2004 - 10:36 am:

No words to even describe this.

By Emily7 on Thursday, September 16, 2004 - 11:53 am:

I am with you on that one Bea.
Speaking from experience, tell her Mom to make her go to the therapy, she may not be talking, but she needs it. It is so important that she knows it isn't her fault.
I will keep this family in my prayers, God be with them.

By Palmbchprincess on Thursday, September 16, 2004 - 12:26 pm:

My first thought was this guy deserves to die for what he did. I've changed my mind, he needs to stay in prison and be raped every day. Sick, sick, sick... thankfully, even the toughest inmates hate child molesters... hope he enjoys his jail time. Poor little girl, this is so awful!!

By Mtingmom on Thursday, September 16, 2004 - 12:42 pm:

That is just awful! Makes me sick!

~Sandy
SAHM MT WAHM
Teach AHM

By Cocoabutter on Thursday, September 16, 2004 - 04:18 pm:

Has anyone ever gone online to the website for the sex offeder registry in your area and entered in your zipcode and found our how many sex offenders are near where you live?

I did that and I found FOUR in my immediate neighborhood. It just goes to show that you never know who you can trust- sadly, even family.

By Insaneusmcwife on Thursday, September 16, 2004 - 10:45 pm:

Any updats on the girls?

By Wandilu on Thursday, September 16, 2004 - 10:45 pm:

I agree about the jail time.I hope the biggest and the baddest pays him MANY visits.