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Forgetting birthdays

Moms View Message Board: General Discussion: Archive August 2007: Forgetting birthdays
By Jackie on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 02:40 pm:

Would you be upset if your Husband forgot your birthday? Today is my birthday, my husband has not said a word about it.. We both watched the news this morning, and it clearly stated the date. Of course I told my kids it was my birthday,after all, they are just kids. Faith said "tell daddy to buy you a birthday cake" :)....a girl after my own heart.
I came downstairs this morning and saw that he had called but left no message. I "thought" ok, he remembered it was my birthday. He does work at a desk on a computer all day, he knows the date. I called him back and he told me to remind Elizabeth to clean her room. Apparently they had an agreement that she would clean when she got up. I said, "anything else" and he said no, and we both hung up...sigh...
When he gets home from his 2nd job, I will remind him that it is my birthday. Granted, our(mine and him)are never big deals like the kids. But... I ALWAYS remember to say Happy Birthday to him.
Yes, I am sad.. but I will get over it.

Has any of your spouses forgotten your birthday?

By Tink on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 03:09 pm:

My dh hasn't ever forgotten but I don't give him much of a chance to miss it since I mention it a few days ahead of time. If he did, I know I'd be hurt to not have any mention of it all day. I hope that he gets his head on straight before he comes home. {{{Jackie}}}

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

By Yjja123 on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 03:19 pm:

Happy Birthday Jackie!
I am so sorry. My brother and sister both forgot my birthday so I understand how you feel :(

By Nicki on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 03:25 pm:

Happy Birthday, Jackie!
I hope your DH will remember and give you a big hug when he gets home!

By Angellew on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 03:44 pm:

Happy Birthday, Jackie!!!!!
bday

By Sandysmom on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 04:01 pm:

My husband is terrible with birthdays so I definitely should give him a heads up.

BTW, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!

By Enchens on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 04:05 pm:

Happy Birthday!

By Karen~admin on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 05:33 pm:

Happy Birthday Jackie. I seem to remember you posting the same thing last year. :-( I'm sorry.

By Jackie on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 05:35 pm:

Thanks for all the birthday wishes :)

Karen,Im sure I posted this last year, I dont remember :(...I never ask for anything special, but just be acknowledged would be nice..sigh..

By Colette on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 05:55 pm:

Happy birthday Jackie. My dh forgot once, and almost forgot a second one. Sounds like he's pretty busy working 2 jobs. I am sure it just slipped his mind. I do know how you feel though.

By Jackie on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 05:58 pm:

Karen..I remember now. Last year we were on a cruise for my birthday. And yes, he did forget. Its hard not to know the dates on a cruise. I mean they leave you all types of stuff and excursion info on specfic dates. last year we were walking to breakfast,and I mentioned to my daughter it was my birthday. After she said he happy birthday, he did too.

By Reds9298 on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 08:15 pm:

Happy birthday Jackie!!! DH hasn't ever forgotten my birthday and I would feel really badly if he did. I'm sure he's just busy with work and got caught up. {{HUGS}}

By Truestori on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 09:03 pm:

Happy Birthday Jackie! I hope it well..... Take care :)

By Dawnk777 on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 09:37 pm:

Happy Birthday, Jackie. My hubby just isn't one to make a big deal of the important days. I just don't sweat it anymore. He is good in so many other ways. He was better, earlier in our marriage. Oh well. On the other hand, though, once he saw a cute little apple-shaped cookie cutter and brought that home to me, for no reason, other than I would like it.

By Yjja123 on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 10:28 pm:

Happy Birthday To You
Happy Birthday To You
Happy Birthday Dear Jackie
Happy Birthday To You!
Sending great bigs hugs your way!!!!!!!!!!!!

By Jelygu on Friday, August 24, 2007 - 11:05 pm:

Happy Birthday Jackie! Sorry he forgot. My dad forgot my birthday last year...

By Christylee on Saturday, August 25, 2007 - 05:41 am:

Happy Birthday Jackie! I hope he remembered and you had a good day!


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