Newbie: Hello from CA
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Hello,
Nice to meet all of you. I have been married for almost 18 years and have two teens and a toddler.
We were a military family and have lived in a couple of places in Indiana, a couple of places in Virginia and have visited North Carolina but mostly we have lived up and down CA. So far we have decided to stay here in the central valley in CA.
I have a daughter that has struggled a lot in school and finally seems to be on track but has the teen syndrome and wants to argue about clothing, food or just not talk and wants to listen to her music.
I have a son who has been at the top of his class and has now been skipped a grade and is a bit of a know it all.
I am starting over with a little one and come to find out EVERYTHING I was told to do with the other two (by doctors) is ALL wrong. I am having to learn everything all over again.
I am looking forward to finding my way around the site and learning to relax. lol
Hi, Esther. Yes, the "rules" in child raising seem to change every decade. It's bad enough to be starting over, but starting over with all new rules is extremely frustrating.
Especially with a teenage daughter, a toddler, and a really bright child in the mix. All three of my sons were very bright, and I felt that I had to run like crazy to even keep within grabbing distance of them, never mind keep ahead.
Welcome to Momsview. You'll find a lot of really nice people here, advice when you ask for it, and times when you can offer advice. And there's a fair number of military and ex-military families who have shared the experiences you have had.
Hope you like it here.
Hi Esther! Welcome! 
WELCOME, Esther! Yes, car seat guidelines have changed, too!
Hi, Esther! I have 2 teenage girls, 17 and 14. I can't imagine having a toddler, too! My girls have their moments with attitude and stuff, but are very kind and respectful at school, even if they aren't with each other. They do get their homework done and get good grades, too.
DH and I have been married 19 years.
Wow, I can relate to you. I just joined the boards today and have not even posted yet until now. I am also from CA, Southern California. My kids are 18, 12, 11, and 12 months! Ha ha...We are starting all over as well. Anyway, I thought I would pop in and say hi, and I can relate to what you say!( I also have a daughter that struggles in school.) She had a reaction to the Hep B shot at six weeks old, and she almost died because of it. Now she is doing well, but has her struggles because it caused a learning difference.
Kristin
welcome Lilianasmama ..... glad you're posting on here. We have a lot of caring, sympathetic moms who are chock FULL of information to share (me, well, I just ask a lot of questions myself, but those others, they have a ton of helpful info for us !)
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~harlena
Thanks Harlena,
I just noticed this post is really old..I thought it was a new one. Thanks for the welcome, I guess i should go introduce myself now, huh? Thanks again..
Hi Lilianasmama,
Welcome. We love Southern California but we're back east now. We have family and dear friends not far from you.
My kids are spread out in age also. When I was pregnant with my youngest, my oldest was in highschool. People would say some pretty wild things - like "do you really want to start over again" and "I'd never want to do that again" all while I was standing there pregnant. Most family people (especially older ones) love it. I know you've probably heard similar. My older ones were both thrilled and nervous about a new little one. Sometimes it was like a new puppy for them - both good and bad.
Also know about learning differences in our family.
Love it that you're here.
Linda
Hi Linda,
Nice to meet you! Sounds like we have similar lives. Yes, people did (and still do say weird things to me all the time.) I hear "I sure wouldn't want to start all over again" a lot!
Our eldest is a freshman at a university, so I was pregnant when she was still in high school as well. My little kids loved the idea of having another, I can't say our oldest was thrilled. She is very happy now to have a new baby sister.
I saw your other post under my introduction, I will check out the threads you spoke of. I just want to find others that struggle with weight after having kids, that in itself is a wonderful support. (Just having others to relate to who know what you are going through, and ides to share and help eachother.)
I love it that I am here too, thank you!
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